Is your SELF-LOVE based on an action such as taking a spa day or eating only organic or buying yourself something you have wanted?
Is your SELF-LOVE based on your achievements, or how your friends or workmates view you?
Is your SELF-LOVE based on your looks or physical appearance?
Is your SELF-LOVE based on how many friends you have in your life or how many likes you have on Facebook?
If your self-love relies on outside indicators, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.
The world is constantly changing; friends come and go, jobs end, appearances, and bodies change and grow older, and actions are always a temporary balm.
Self-love is never contingent on what you are doing or how the outside world views you.
SELF-LOVE is rooted in THE UNIVERSAL TRUTH of who you are and will always be.
When your being is rooted in self-love, no outside force can distance you from the truth of who you and the love you have for yourself will no longer be dependent on what is happening at the moment.
Your love will originate from within allowing you to move through life and its challenges always rooted in THE TRUTH that you are WORTHY, VALUED and that you and your love are GOOD ENOUGH and that nothing the outside world throws at you will ever change that!
Until next time be the light the world needs and stay in love for all.
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Joffre McClung is the author of two books, How Learning to Say Goodbye Taught Me How to Live ( Kirkus Reviews “Heartfelt reflections on the lessons and strength to be gained from grief and loss….A thoughtful think piece.”) and The Heart of the Matter ( A Workbook and Guide to Finding Your Way Back to Self-Love) coming this April!