Self-love Archives - Joffre McClung Book Collection

30 Jul

Live larger

Joffre McClung Larger, Self-love 0 0

Live larger. When you’re working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to come to the point that you no longer make yourself smaller so that other people are more comfortable. Now I used to do this because of the bullies in my life. I would make myself smaller so as not to bother them. I think women tend to do this more than, but men do it as well. We have to stop making ourselves smaller so…..

16 Jul

Give Yourself Some Space

Joffre McClung Self-love, Time out 0 0

Give yourself some space. When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to learn to take breaks. Part of taking a break is it’s taking yourself away from a situation that may be tiring to you or trouble for you and giving yourself some space so that you can “re-boost” yourself and return to the situation where refreshed. I know a lot of people, when I talk to them, say I got to get on this. I got…..

09 Jul

Decisions Are Coming From You

Joffre McClung Decisions, Self-love 0 0

Decisions Are Coming From You. When working on returning to self-love, there’s going to come a point when you realize that every decision you ever made or will ever make is coming from you. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something that you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to go in a direction. A direction that you did not choose to go. Every decision that you made…..

25 Jun

Who Is the Divine to You?

Joffre McClung Divine, Self-love 0 0

When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your relationship with the divine. Whether you call it God, Goddess, the Universe, or the big kahuna, I really don’t care what you call it. But you’re going to have to look at your relationship with the divine. Most of us were taught how the divine sees us and our place in the world because of the divine. Who is God to you? Now most people…..

11 Jun

To Know That You Are Loved

Joffre McClung Self-love, valued 0 0

When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to come to the understanding that you are loved. So, what does it mean to know that you are loved? To know that you are loved is to know that you have value and that you matter to the universe. Not for what you’ve done, not for what you will do, but because you are you. The fact that you exist in this world means you matter and are…..

04 Jun

Know You Are Loving

Joffre McClung loving, Self-love 0 0

When you are working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to embrace the second component of self-love. It is to know that you are loving. Now to know that you are loving means that you know you are given a naturally loving heart that’s been waiting to be expressed uniquely through you. That’s why we do all the work on our inner orphans and on our wounds. So we can remove the barriers from around our hearts. And…..

14 May

Let Go Of Your Limits

Joffre McClung No Limits, Self-love 0 0

When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to let go of your limits. We all have limits within us. We were told who we were when we were children. You carry those beliefs with you into the present day. We put in new beliefs on top of these old beliefs of what we’re capable of – of what we can achieve -what we can have – what we can experience. When you’re working on returning to…..

07 May

Walk in Other’s Shoes

Joffre McClung compassion, Self-love 0 0

When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to walk in others’ shoes. You do this so you can understand why they behaved the way they have towards you. You do this so you can find compassion and understanding so you can forgive them and be free. We all need to practice what we were taught in Sunday school or the temple, or the mosque. We need to learn to walk in other…..

23 Apr

Stop being serious

Joffre McClung relax, Self-love 0 0

Stop being serious. When working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you stop taking life so seriously. When you have looked back at your wounds and healed them. When you have forgiven those, who have harmed you. When you looked back at your negative beliefs and carried them for so long and changed them. There is a new sense of freedom that comes over you. Stop being serious because you know you can…..

25 Mar

Compassion Breeds Compassion