When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to something quite tremendous. You have the power to change yourself. Now most of us have been taught that people don’t change. But in truth, if you’re willing to do the inner work, you can change yourself. You have the power to change. I was recently talking to someone who had not been a good father. Now when I said do it now. He said it was too late. If you…..
What beliefs need changing? When working on returning to self-love, you, of course, have to get to know yourself. And one of the easiest ways of getting to know yourself is to ask yourself the question, why do I believe what I believe? Did my parents teach me that? Did my teachers teach me that? My friends did they teach me that? When you look at what you believe and who told you that you get to decide, does this…..
Stop being serious. When working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you stop taking life so seriously. When you have looked back at your wounds and healed them. When you have forgiven those, who have harmed you. When you looked back at your negative beliefs and carried them for so long and changed them. There is a new sense of freedom that comes over you. Stop being serious because you know you can…..
Foes are our best friends. When you are working on returning to self-love, something a little unusual will happen to you. You are suddenly going to realize that your foes – those supposed enemies – on a soul level are really your best friends. Now, these people are the ones who separate you from your feelings of self-love. Foes kept you from feeling valuable – that you mattered and that you were good enough. Foes are your best friend. They…..
You are so much more. When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to let go of your limits. Now when you were children, you were told who you were. What you are good at. What you weren’t so good at. You carried those beliefs forward into the present day. You even put new beliefs on top of these older beliefs, telling you what you can experience – what you can achieve. When you are…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you realize that every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. All decisions are yours. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in…..
When working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to be kind to yourself. You are going to be healing wounds and changing negative beliefs. And along the way, you are going to make mistakes. When changing a negative belief, it is going to take time to lock in this new belief and have your behavior follow that new belief. So, you are going to have to practice kindness with yourself. You are going to have…..
Make self-love your resolution. When working on returning to self-love, the New Year becomes quite different. Maybe you are going to make resolutions and then break them in two weeks. Do you want to change your life? Make a self-love resolution. Or perhaps, you going to decide to fall in love with yourself. to make a self-love resolution. You are going to go within and find out who you are. Perhaps, change the beliefs that have been holding you back……
When working on finding your self-love, you will have to look at how you receive compliments or unexpected blessings. It will tell you a lot about where you are on your journey. Unexpected blessings I had a friend who I gave some New Year’s gifts from the dollar store. They literally cost me a dollar. I filled a bag full of them just to say thanks for being in my life. When my friend saw the bag, she seemed –…..
It is essential to be kind to yourself, especially during tough times. The saying that relationships are determined during tough times is true. However, the rough times also show your relationship with yourself as well. Are you kind to yourself or compassionate with yourself? Are you gentle or nourishing with yourself during tough times and difficult times? Being kind to yourself during difficult times makes those a bit easier to deal with – and actually makes those horrible times…..
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