When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to become true to yourself. What does that mean to be true to yourself? It means listening to what your heart wants and not going against it. How many times have we said yes to something when we really wanted to say no thanks? I’m not interested. How many times have you done something that you wish you weren’t doing, but you figured it would make somebody else happy? You’ve…..
When working on your way back to self-love, you’re going to have to decide that everything that happens in your life is for goodness. It is for your advantage. That life is in your favor, even if it looks dark as hell. You’re going to have to realize that this is in your favor and you’re going to have to roll up your sleeves and figure out what it’s here to teach you. Perhaps it’s teaching you to change some…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to start acting like a child. Now, what do I mean by acting like a child? I don’t mean to have tantrums or fits or close your eyes and hold your breath. What I mean by being like a child is to have great joy in your life. Excitement about your life and anticipation about your life. By being like a child, those are energies that will lift the resonance…..
When working on returning to self-love, like I’ve said many times, you’re going to have to be comfortable with emotions. But there’s something that I’ve noticed. A lot of people are afraid to cry. They may feel like crying, but they shove it down. Or they refuse their feelings of needing to cry. What makes you stop from crying? Crying is essential in releasing the emotions that you’ve shoved down. Crying is essential in releasing the emotions that you’ve ignored……
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to realize that it’s never too late to receive love. We often put conditions on when we can receive love, and if time has passed, there are many situations that I thought were over because I did not receive the love in the moment. However, once I did my self-love work, I realized I could return to the person and let them know I was ready to receive the love, and nine…..
When working on returning to self-love, you will begin to notice your patterns. We all have patterns that keep reappearing in our lives over and over again until they’re healed. For me, it was jealousy. I always had jealousy in my life. Someone was always angry and jealous of me until I went in and healed that wound. I took my power back from the energy patterns that kept reappearing until they were healed and transformed. They may have new…..
When working on returning back to self-love, there’s going to come the point when you realize all decisions come from you. Every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction that you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in the past…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your prejudices. Whether it’s towards other races, people who have a different language or religion, or perhaps they’re driving a different truck than you do. Time to look at your Prejudices. For instance, I did not have any particular racial prejudices, but I did have prejudices towards people who drove trucks with Confederate flags on the back. I did have prejudices against supposed rednecks. So I looked…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to stop comparing yourself to other people. You’re no longer 13 years old and no longer an adolescent. And all it does is make you feel bad. There’s always going to be people who have more money, a better job, or a bigger house. Comparing yourself to other people is the quickest way to make yourself feel worse. Plus, you have no idea what was going on behind closed doors……
When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to get your mind in sync with your heart. Now, most people are told to work with their minds to change their lives. Changing their negative beliefs through their minds and using affirmations leaves the heart completely out of the equation. The problem is most of our wounds are logged in our hearts. So, we have to heal the heart and get the mind and heart in sync in order to truly…..
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