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15 Sep

All Decisions Come From You

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When working on returning back to self-love, there’s going to come the point when you realize all decisions come from you. Every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction that you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in the past…..

08 Sep

Look at Your Prejudices

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When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your prejudices. Whether it’s towards other races, people who have a different language or religion, or perhaps they’re driving a different truck than you do. Time to look at your Prejudices. For instance, I did not have any particular racial prejudices, but I did have prejudices towards people who drove trucks with Confederate flags on the back. I did have prejudices against supposed rednecks. So I looked…..

04 Aug

Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

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When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to stop comparing yourself to other people. You’re no longer 13 years old and no longer an adolescent. And all it does is make you feel bad. There’s always going to be people who have more money, a better job, or a bigger house. Comparing yourself to other people is the quickest way to make yourself feel worse. Plus, you have no idea what was going on behind closed doors……

14 Jul

Mind In Sync With Your Heart

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When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to get your mind in sync with your heart. Now, most people are told to work with their minds to change their lives. Changing their negative beliefs through their minds and using affirmations leaves the heart completely out of the equation. The problem is most of our wounds are logged in our hearts. So, we have to heal the heart and get the mind and heart in sync in order to truly…..

07 Jul

Look For Positive Things

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When working on returning to self-love, you will have to start training your mind to look for the positive things, even in dire situations. Let’s say you had a car accident, and you’re thinking – why did this happen to me? Why is life so unfair? As you’re working on returning to self-love, you’ll notice you’re able to start to see something positive within any situation, such as in a car accident- no one was hurt. That’s looking for the…..

30 Jun

Look At Your Fear

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When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your fears – all of your fears. Now, a lot of people like to run from their fears. Well, if I don’t look at my fear, it won’t grab me. It won’t take me down. But that’s just not true. Just because you ignore your fear consciously does not mean it’s not impacting you subconsciously. You’re going to have to look at your fears, especially during this…..

23 Jun

Look Back At Your Life

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When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to look back at your life. You’ll have to look back at the things you thought you had healed or perhaps shoved down or moved past and realize you’ll have to bring them to the surface again. This time, we need to heal them with love and compassion. We all have things that happened to us when we were children. Most of the time, we shove them down or ignore them until…..

16 Jun

Own Your Inner Demons

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When working on returning to self-love, there is a point in your journey that you’re going to have to own your own inner demons. Now, what I mean by inner demons is, let’s say you’ve been working on the bully who’s been in your life. Who’s wounded you, and who you’ve called forth again and again and again? At some point, you’re going to have to look at your own inner bully. Or let’s say you’ve worked with jealousy in…..

02 Jun

Really Like Yourself

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When working on returning to self-love, there will eventually come a point when you actually like yourself— really like yourself. You will like your sense of humor, generosity, and kindness. You will like your ability to pick yourself up and move forward even after you’ve fallen again and again. Really like yourself. It’s going to be a moment when you actually like who you are. Who you’re becoming and who you hope to be. We heal our past and let…..

26 May

Power of Laughing

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When working on returning to self-love, you have to understand the power of laughing. Whether it’s laughing at yourself for the mistakes you’ve made. Or laughing at the negative beliefs that you’ve allowed to create your life so far. Laughing at the fact that you have these inner orphans you’ve ignored and are now aware of. You’re going to have to learn to laugh. The power of Laughing is a very powerful tool. It takes you right out of despair…..

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