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When working on returning to self-love, you have to use your inner tool of imagination. Now, we all have an imagination. As adults, we tend to use it to think of the worst-case scenarios. What’s the worst-case thing that can happen in my life, and then you worry about it? Now, when we were children, we used our imagination to “play like.” To play like – what if this happened- to daydream for hours looking out the window. We used…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to need to meet your Higher Self. Now, everyone has a Higher Self. It’s just that most people don’t even know it. Your higher self is the part of you that has never forgotten that it is one with the divine and carries within it all the knowledge and power of that love. It is your wise one. It is your one that can see 360°. It’s the one that can…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’ve got to wake up your imagination. We’ve talked about this before, but during this time of crisis, it’s important to use your imagination to think of the positive things—the things you want to happen—the things you dream to happen rather than getting stuck in worry. We tend to use our imagination to create worries and fears, and then we get in a loop of worrying and fear. During this time, start using your…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to redefine love. You’re going to have to redefine love in the sense of the divine or the universe as well as the world around you. Does the universe know you? Does the universe know your name? Do you matter to the universe? Are you valued by the universe- and the world? Is the world in your favor, or is it chaotic where the strongest survive? In order to…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to find your way back to acceptance. I was recently talking to a group of people a group of transgender people and how they feel they don’t get any acceptance. I had to remind them that acceptance starts within. It doesn’t matter if someone else accepts you because what they’re showing you is their lack of self-love. Acceptance starts within. You’ve got to go within and get to know yourself – all…..
Live larger. When you’re working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to come to the point that you no longer make yourself smaller so that other people are more comfortable. Now I used to do this because of the bullies in my life. I would make myself smaller so as not to bother them. I think women tend to do this more than, but men do it as well. We have to stop making ourselves smaller so…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to come to the understanding that you are lovable. So, what does it mean to know that you are lovable? To know that you are lovable means that you know you are worthy of love in the universe’s eyes. There’s nothing in your makeup or how you were designed that makes you unlovable. You are lovable, period – no exemptions. There is nothing you can say or do that…..
When working on returning to self-love, you are going to begin to use your imagination in a new way. Especially during this tough time, I want you to begin to use your imagination to dream what you want to experience. Now we all are carrying around extra levels of stress and anxiety – being uptight. Take one minute a day and imagine what you want to happen in the near future – with no limits – no rules. Just what…..
You are so much more. When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to let go of your limits. Now when you were children, you were told who you were. What you are good at. What you weren’t so good at. You carried those beliefs forward into the present day. You even put new beliefs on top of these older beliefs, telling you what you can experience – what you can achieve. When you are…..
When working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to be kind to yourself. You are going to be healing wounds and changing negative beliefs. And along the way, you are going to make mistakes. When changing a negative belief, it is going to take time to lock in this new belief and have your behavior follow that new belief. So, you are going to have to practice kindness with yourself. You are going to have…..
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