When you are working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to embrace the second component of self-love. It is to know that you are loving. Now to know that you are loving means that you know you are given a naturally loving heart that’s been waiting to be expressed uniquely through you. That’s why we do all the work on our inner orphans and on our wounds. So we can remove the barriers from around our hearts. And…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to come to the understanding that you are lovable. So, what does it mean to know that you are lovable? To know that you are lovable means that you know you are worthy of love in the universe’s eyes. There’s nothing in your makeup or how you were designed that makes you unlovable. You are lovable, period – no exemptions. There is nothing you can say or do that…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to let go of your limits. We all have limits within us. We were told who we were when we were children. You carry those beliefs with you into the present day. We put in new beliefs on top of these old beliefs of what we’re capable of – of what we can achieve -what we can have – what we can experience. When you’re working on returning to…..
Stop being serious. When working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you stop taking life so seriously. When you have looked back at your wounds and healed them. When you have forgiven those, who have harmed you. When you looked back at your negative beliefs and carried them for so long and changed them. There is a new sense of freedom that comes over you. Stop being serious because you know you can…..
When working on returning to self-love, you are going to begin to use your imagination in a new way. Especially during this tough time, I want you to begin to use your imagination to dream what you want to experience. Now we all are carrying around extra levels of stress and anxiety – being uptight. Take one minute a day and imagine what you want to happen in the near future – with no limits – no rules. Just what…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you are going to have to turn up the volume on your positive inner voices. You need to add a positive inner voice. Let’s say you are hearing your inner critic or your inner judge. You need to turn up your inner cheerleader or your inner champion. You need to turn up the opposite voice from what you are hearing in your head – putting you down – criticizing you – judging you……
Compassion Breeds Compassion. When working on returning to self-love, as I have said before, you are going to have to own your demons. The gift of owning your inner demons is compassion. You see, when you own your inner bully or your inner jealous one, you look back and understand that you behaved that way because of your lack of self-love – Your lack of feeling valuable or that you matter or are worthy of love. Compassion is waiting to…..
When working on returning to self-love, there is going to become a point that you receive what you desire. First off, start by saying thank you to the universe for helping you to co-create this desire that you have longed for. And you are also setting up a pattern of wanting more of it. In other words, setting up a pattern of keeping your heart open to receiving more of these good things. Whenever you focus on what you want,…..
Foes are our best friends. When you are working on returning to self-love, something a little unusual will happen to you. You are suddenly going to realize that your foes – those supposed enemies – on a soul level are really your best friends. Now, these people are the ones who separate you from your feelings of self-love. Foes kept you from feeling valuable – that you mattered and that you were good enough. Foes are your best friend. They…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to discover something quite tremendous. You have the power to change yourself. Now, most of us have been taught that people don’t change. But in truth, if you are willing to do the inner work, you can change yourself. I recently was talking to someone who had not been a good father. When I said do it now, they said it is too late. If you still have breath…..
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