When working on returning to self-love, you are going to embrace freedom. Now what do I mean by freedom? I mean freedom from your negative beliefs. Beliefs that keep you small and in a tiny box not allowing you to experience the grandness of this life. Freedom from the negative thoughts you have running in your head every day telling you that you’re not good enough – that you’re less than – that you’re miserable. Freedom from your inner wounds…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to become true to yourself. What does that mean to be true to yourself? It means listening to what your heart wants and not going against it. How many times have we said yes to something when we really wanted to say no thanks? I’m not interested. How many times have you done something that you wish you weren’t doing, but you figured it would make somebody else happy? You’ve…..
When working on your way back to self-love, you’re going to have to decide that everything that happens in your life is for goodness. It is for your advantage. That life is in your favor, even if it looks dark as hell. You’re going to have to realize that this is in your favor and you’re going to have to roll up your sleeves and figure out what it’s here to teach you. Perhaps it’s teaching you to change some…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to start acting like a child. Now, what do I mean by acting like a child? I don’t mean to have tantrums or fits or close your eyes and hold your breath. What I mean by being like a child is to have great joy in your life. Excitement about your life and anticipation about your life. By being like a child, those are energies that will lift the resonance…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to realize that it’s never too late to receive love. We often put conditions on when we can receive love, and if time has passed, there are many situations that I thought were over because I did not receive the love in the moment. However, once I did my self-love work, I realized I could return to the person and let them know I was ready to receive the love, and nine…..
When working on returning to self-love, you will begin to notice your patterns. We all have patterns that keep reappearing in our lives over and over again until they’re healed. For me, it was jealousy. I always had jealousy in my life. Someone was always angry and jealous of me until I went in and healed that wound. I took my power back from the energy patterns that kept reappearing until they were healed and transformed. They may have new…..
When working on returning to self-love, you will have to pay attention to what you say to yourself and your friends. Now, I know a lot of people who do gratitude in the morning, or say their prayers, or do their affirmations. They do it for 15 minutes every morning. Then, spend the next 23 hours and 45 minutes complaining or being negative. And saying how the world is out to get them—living in negative energy. You cannot spend 15…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to receive love unconditionally. You don’t need to ask forgiveness for something you’ve done in order to receive it. And you don’t have to be forgiven for being born! You just need to receive love unconditionally without limits – without rules – without needing to be forgiven. Once you are able to close your eyes, see a loving image, and begin to receive that love deep in your heart,…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you may have to throw yourself a pity party. A pity party is when you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself. We all have those feelings, but most of us shove them down because we were told not to have them. But in truth, if you are feeling sad about your life, feeling sad about what’s happening to you, it’s OK to throw yourself a pity party. You don’t need to make…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to get your mind in sync with your heart. Now, most people are told to work with their minds to change their lives. Changing their negative beliefs through their minds and using affirmations leaves the heart completely out of the equation. The problem is most of our wounds are logged in our hearts. So, we have to heal the heart and get the mind and heart in sync in order to truly…..