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15 Sep

All Decisions Come From You

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When working on returning back to self-love, there’s going to come the point when you realize all decisions come from you. Every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction that you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in the past…..

08 Sep

Look at Your Prejudices

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When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your prejudices. Whether it’s towards other races, people who have a different language or religion, or perhaps they’re driving a different truck than you do. Time to look at your Prejudices. For instance, I did not have any particular racial prejudices, but I did have prejudices towards people who drove trucks with Confederate flags on the back. I did have prejudices against supposed rednecks. So I looked…..

18 Aug

Pay attention to what you say

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When working on returning to self-love, you will have to pay attention to what you say to yourself and your friends. Now, I know a lot of people who do gratitude in the morning, or say their prayers, or do their affirmations. They do it for 15 minutes every morning. Then, spend the next 23 hours and 45 minutes complaining or being negative. And saying how the world is out to get them—living in negative energy. You cannot spend 15…..

04 Aug

Stop Comparing Yourself to Other People

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When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to stop comparing yourself to other people. You’re no longer 13 years old and no longer an adolescent. And all it does is make you feel bad. There’s always going to be people who have more money, a better job, or a bigger house. Comparing yourself to other people is the quickest way to make yourself feel worse. Plus, you have no idea what was going on behind closed doors……

28 Jul

Receive Love Unconditionally

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When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to receive love unconditionally. You don’t need to ask forgiveness for something you’ve done in order to receive it. And you don’t have to be forgiven for being born! You just need to receive love unconditionally without limits – without rules – without needing to be forgiven. Once you are able to close your eyes, see a loving image, and begin to receive that love deep in your heart,…..

21 Jul

Throw Yourself a Pity Party

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When you’re working on returning to self-love, you may have to throw yourself a pity party. A pity party is when you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself. We all have those feelings, but most of us shove them down because we were told not to have them. But in truth, if you are feeling sad about your life, feeling sad about what’s happening to you, it’s OK to throw yourself a pity party. You don’t need to make…..

14 Jul

Mind In Sync With Your Heart

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When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to get your mind in sync with your heart. Now, most people are told to work with their minds to change their lives. Changing their negative beliefs through their minds and using affirmations leaves the heart completely out of the equation. The problem is most of our wounds are logged in our hearts. So, we have to heal the heart and get the mind and heart in sync in order to truly…..

07 Jul

Look For Positive Things

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When working on returning to self-love, you will have to start training your mind to look for the positive things, even in dire situations. Let’s say you had a car accident, and you’re thinking – why did this happen to me? Why is life so unfair? As you’re working on returning to self-love, you’ll notice you’re able to start to see something positive within any situation, such as in a car accident- no one was hurt. That’s looking for the…..

30 Jun

Look At Your Fear

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When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your fears – all of your fears. Now, a lot of people like to run from their fears. Well, if I don’t look at my fear, it won’t grab me. It won’t take me down. But that’s just not true. Just because you ignore your fear consciously does not mean it’s not impacting you subconsciously. You’re going to have to look at your fears, especially during this…..

23 Jun

Look Back At Your Life

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When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to look back at your life. You’ll have to look back at the things you thought you had healed or perhaps shoved down or moved past and realize you’ll have to bring them to the surface again. This time, we need to heal them with love and compassion. We all have things that happened to us when we were children. Most of the time, we shove them down or ignore them until…..

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