When working on returning to self-love, you’ve got to wake up your imagination. We’ve talked about this before, but during this time of crisis, it’s important to use your imagination to think of the positive things—the things you want to happen—the things you dream to happen rather than getting stuck in worry. We tend to use our imagination to create worries and fears, and then we get in a loop of worrying and fear. During this time, start using your…..
When working on returning to self-love, you will eventually realize that you cannot make a decision for another person. You only make decisions for yourself. We like to give our opinions and judgments on what other people should be doing. But in truth, if you’ve done your self-love work, you realize you have no right to tell someone else what decision they should make. Each person is on their own journey, on their own path, and the rock that they’re…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re gonna realize one important fact: all the work you’re doing – all the healing you’re doing – all of the negative beliefs that you’re changing – all the orphans that you’re healing and bringing forward – all the work you’re doing inwardly is to receive love. In truth, everything else is window dressing. We remove our walls from our hearts to receive love. We change our negative beliefs to make them more loving…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to take your honesty to a new level. Most of us spend most of our lives lying to ourselves. It’s time to be honest with yourself. If you find that you’re angry with other people or cussing them out – telling them to screw off, you need to look underneath your anger. Because underneath your anger is what you need to heal. It is most likely hurt or fear……
When working on returning to self-love, you have to understand the fundamental part of self-love is love. Self-love is about loving you. It’s not about receiving love from other people. It’s about tapping into the love that resides within your heart. Self-love is about loving you. Now, this can seem easy to a lot of people, but I found that people are able to tap into their anger or rage, or their fear. However, when it comes to tapping into…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to take the journey of self-discovery. In order to get to self-love, you’re going to have to get to know yourself, really get to know yourself. You’re going to have to learn how to ask yourself the questions. To know what you really believe. To know what you think about the world, the universe, and your place in it. You’re going to have to know what you feel. Feel…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to reform your boundaries. Now, we all have boundaries that we put in place. They make us feel safe and secure, but unfortunately, some of these boundaries are no longer necessary. However, sometimes new boundaries are needed in order to make you feel safe and secure. The holidays are a great time to decide what is needed. Do you say yes when you really need to say no to certain…..
When working on returning to self-love, the holidays become slightly different. Maybe you have tons of family and friends to be around, or perhaps you’ll be alone. In any case, holidays can become a very lonely time. Self-love helps you to understand that even if you’re alone or perhaps surrounded by family or loved ones who don’t understand you, that’s OK. The universe understands you. You are worthy of love. You matter, you are valued, and you are more than…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to find your way back to acceptance. I was recently talking to a group of people a group of transgender people and how they feel they don’t get any acceptance. I had to remind them that acceptance starts within. It doesn’t matter if someone else accepts you because what they’re showing you is their lack of self-love. Acceptance starts within. You’ve got to go within and get to know yourself – all…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to acknowledge the changes that are happening in your life. Let’s say you’ve changed a negative belief or you’ve healed an old wound. You’re going to have to acknowledge that it has changed your life, maybe only in small ways, but it has changed your life. If you acknowledge the changes that are happening along the way, it will inspire you to continue to do the work. To make…..
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