11
Sep
You can no longer blame others for your decisions when you move back into self-love. Blaming others for making you do something you didn’t want to do – no longer works. You will realize that every decision you have ever made, both in the past and present, was made to make you feel safe. Or perhaps you made them, so you feel loved or give you a sense of peace. It is always your decision.
When you are in self-love, you can make decisions that bring you more love, joy, passion, and delight. Self-love means you know you are valued, worthy of love, and more than good enough. Again, it is always your decision.
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Until next time, be the light the world needs and have love for all.
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