When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to become true to yourself. What does that mean to be true to yourself? It means listening to what your heart wants and not going against it. How many times have we said yes to something when we really wanted to say no thanks? I’m not interested. How many times have you done something that you wish you weren’t doing, but you figured it would make somebody else happy? You’ve…..
When working on your way back to self-love, you’re going to have to decide that everything that happens in your life is for goodness. It is for your advantage. That life is in your favor, even if it looks dark as hell. You’re going to have to realize that this is in your favor and you’re going to have to roll up your sleeves and figure out what it’s here to teach you. Perhaps it’s teaching you to change some…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to realize that it’s never too late to receive love. We often put conditions on when we can receive love, and if time has passed, there are many situations that I thought were over because I did not receive the love in the moment. However, once I did my self-love work, I realized I could return to the person and let them know I was ready to receive the love, and nine…..
When working on returning to self-love, you will begin to notice your patterns. We all have patterns that keep reappearing in our lives over and over again until they’re healed. For me, it was jealousy. I always had jealousy in my life. Someone was always angry and jealous of me until I went in and healed that wound. I took my power back from the energy patterns that kept reappearing until they were healed and transformed. They may have new…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to look at your prejudices. Whether it’s towards other races, people who have a different language or religion, or perhaps they’re driving a different truck than you do. Time to look at your Prejudices. For instance, I did not have any particular racial prejudices, but I did have prejudices towards people who drove trucks with Confederate flags on the back. I did have prejudices against supposed rednecks. So I looked…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to receive love unconditionally. You don’t need to ask forgiveness for something you’ve done in order to receive it. And you don’t have to be forgiven for being born! You just need to receive love unconditionally without limits – without rules – without needing to be forgiven. Once you are able to close your eyes, see a loving image, and begin to receive that love deep in your heart,…..
When you’re working on returning to self-love, you may have to throw yourself a pity party. A pity party is when you allow yourself to feel sorry for yourself. We all have those feelings, but most of us shove them down because we were told not to have them. But in truth, if you are feeling sad about your life, feeling sad about what’s happening to you, it’s OK to throw yourself a pity party. You don’t need to make…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to get your mind in sync with your heart. Now, most people are told to work with their minds to change their lives. Changing their negative beliefs through their minds and using affirmations leaves the heart completely out of the equation. The problem is most of our wounds are logged in our hearts. So, we have to heal the heart and get the mind and heart in sync in order to truly…..
When working on returning to self-love, you will have to start training your mind to look for the positive things, even in dire situations. Let’s say you had a car accident, and you’re thinking – why did this happen to me? Why is life so unfair? As you’re working on returning to self-love, you’ll notice you’re able to start to see something positive within any situation, such as in a car accident- no one was hurt. That’s looking for the…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’ll have to look back at your life. You’ll have to look back at the things you thought you had healed or perhaps shoved down or moved past and realize you’ll have to bring them to the surface again. This time, we need to heal them with love and compassion. We all have things that happened to us when we were children. Most of the time, we shove them down or ignore them until…..
