When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to reform your boundaries. Now, we all have boundaries that we put in place. They make us feel safe and secure, but unfortunately, some of these boundaries are no longer necessary. However, sometimes new boundaries are needed in order to make you feel safe and secure. The holidays are a great time to decide what is needed.
Do you say yes when you really need to say no to certain functions or parties? Do you say yes to having other people come to your house when, in truth, you really would not like to be around them? This is the time to see what your limits are like. The holidays are a great time to see where you need to grow your boundaries and where you need to let go of them. It’s all about self-love people.
Note: It can be hard to let go of boundaries and alert people back into our circle. But if you forgive someone, you must be open-hearted enough to put your walls down and greet them anew.
For more, check out my books, The Heart of the Matter or How Learning To Say Goodbye Taught Me How To Live.
Until next time, be the light the world needs and have love for all.