Stop being serious. When working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you stop taking life so seriously. When you have looked back at your wounds and healed them. When you have forgiven those, who have harmed you. When you looked back at your negative beliefs and carried them for so long and changed them. There is a new sense of freedom that comes over you. Stop being serious because you know you can…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you are going to have to turn up the volume on your positive inner voices. You need to add a positive inner voice. Let’s say you are hearing your inner critic or your inner judge. You need to turn up your inner cheerleader or your inner champion. You need to turn up the opposite voice from what you are hearing in your head – putting you down – criticizing you – judging you……
When working on returning to self-love, there is going to become a point that you receive what you desire. First off, start by saying thank you to the universe for helping you to co-create this desire that you have longed for. And you are also setting up a pattern of wanting more of it. In other words, setting up a pattern of keeping your heart open to receiving more of these good things. Whenever you focus on what you want,…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to come to a point where you realize that you are never really alone, especially during times of crisis. You are really not walking the path alone. As you learn to do your meditations and connect inwardly, you are going to discover that you have all this help within you. Whether it is yourself or your guides or angels – or whatever you want to call them – you…..
You are so much more. When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to let go of your limits. Now when you were children, you were told who you were. What you are good at. What you weren’t so good at. You carried those beliefs forward into the present day. You even put new beliefs on top of these older beliefs, telling you what you can experience – what you can achieve. When you are…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to discover something quite tremendous. You have the power to change yourself. Now, most of us have been taught that people don’t change. But in truth, if you are willing to do the inner work, you can change yourself. I recently was talking to someone who had not been a good father. When I said do it now, they said it is too late. If you still have breath…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you realize that every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. All decisions are yours. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in…..
When you are working on finding yourself, you are going to have to become your own best friend. Self-love is about love and learning how to love yourself. Now that doesn’t mean going to the spa or eating well, going to the gym, or setting boundaries. That’s mnt saying that all of these things are not good. They are all very good things to do, but they are not really about loving yourself. Self-love is about learning how to love…..
Make self-love your resolution. When working on returning to self-love, the New Year becomes quite different. Maybe you are going to make resolutions and then break them in two weeks. Do you want to change your life? Make a self-love resolution. Or perhaps, you going to decide to fall in love with yourself. to make a self-love resolution. You are going to go within and find out who you are. Perhaps, change the beliefs that have been holding you back……
When working on returning to self-love, you will have to learn to accept yourself. I was recently talking with a group of people- transgender people about the need for acceptance. This group said they don’t feel accepted by other people. I had to remind them that acceptance starts within. It does not matter if others accept you. Because their lack of willingness to accept other people is a sign of them, in truth, lacking in self-love To learn to accept…..
