Story of a loving heart A loving heart for Thanksgiving. This week’s inspiration is a story about how a teacher impacted her student’s life. She asked everyone to draw pictures of what Thanksgiving means to each. She figured each would draw a turkey or potato, or pumpkin pie. However, one little boy did something different. He was her sad little boy, rarely going out to play and always standing beside her. He had such lonely eyes. The teacher could only…..
We are now entering the holiday season for many of us. Perhaps it is time to do holidays differently since they consistently do two things. They stress out – with all the planning, shopping, cooking, traveling, and trying to keep everyone happy, which is frankly impossible, yet we try. They stress us out. We allow people to step over our boundaries. I don’t care how strong you are – you will end up doing something you really don’t want to…..
You Make Decisions For Yourself. When you are working on returning to self-love, there will come the point when you understand that you cannot decide for another person. Most of us like to give our opinion or judgment o what people should be doing. But if you are in self-love, you know you have no right to tell someone what to do. It is their decsion. Each person is on their own journey – on their own path. Any rock…..
When working on returning to self-love, you must embrace your flaws . When I was younger, I had a speech impediment. I could not say my Ms, Ns, Ps, or Ts. I was literally tongue-tied. Luckily, I had an operation later in life to take care of this issue. But because I had this impediment, I did not speak or read well. That is one of the reasons I loved acting. You could memorize your lines, and my feeling of…..
What you see is what you get. Let’s start with the idea of allowing more love into your life. What if you allowed more images of love to permeate your vision? Love is not just one person to another but what you focus on with your attention and physical eyes. So if you only saw beauty or love, the lower energies would not only not be registered by your mind, but they would have little or no impact on you. Your…..
When working on returning to self-love, you must get to know yourself. You must know why you believe what you believe and if it works for you. Also, you need to know your emotions and what is running them. What is underneath your emotions? What actions do you take to protect yourself and keep yourself safe? To return to self-love, you MUST know yourself intimately- then you can change! Click here to play For more,…..
Unconditional love. While working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to receive unconditional love. You don’t have to beg or ask for forgiveness. You don’t have to apologize for being born. You just have to receive unconditional love. Also, there are no rules or limits on how much you can receive. See images of love. So, I want you to be able to close your eyes and see a loving image and receive the love…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you must acknowledge the changes that are happening in your life. Perhaps you have changed a negative belief or healed an old wound; you must recognize the changes- the small changes that come out of that work. If you admit the small changes happening, it will inspire you to keep doing the inner work – to keep changing negative beliefs or heal past wounds. You will experience large changes at some point,…..
You can no longer blame others for your decisions when you move back into self-love. Blaming others for making you do something you didn’t want to do – no longer works. You will realize that every decision you have ever made, both in the past and present, was made to make you feel safe. Or perhaps you made them, so you feel loved or give you a sense of peace. It is always your decision. When you are in self-love,…..
When returning to self-love, you must pay attention to your thoughts. So, what fear or feeling caused you to be triggered and have a problematic reaction? Only by becoming aware of your thoughts and what triggered you to have those thoughts can you begin to understand yourself better. And only then can you begin to heal your past wounds. . What triggered it? Allowing your thoughts to have free range. Understand those thoughts that float by are fine, but it…..