When working on returning to self-love, there is going to become a point that you receive what you desire. First off, start by saying thank you to the universe for helping you to co-create this desire that you have longed for. And you are also setting up a pattern of wanting more of it. In other words, setting up a pattern of keeping your heart open to receiving more of these good things. Whenever you focus on what you want,…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to come to a point where you realize that you are never really alone, especially during times of crisis. You are really not walking the path alone. As you learn to do your meditations and connect inwardly, you are going to discover that you have all this help within you. Whether it is yourself or your guides or angels – or whatever you want to call them – you…..
You are so much more. When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to let go of your limits. Now when you were children, you were told who you were. What you are good at. What you weren’t so good at. You carried those beliefs forward into the present day. You even put new beliefs on top of these older beliefs, telling you what you can experience – what you can achieve. When you are…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, you are going to discover something quite tremendous. You have the power to change yourself. Now, most of us have been taught that people don’t change. But in truth, if you are willing to do the inner work, you can change yourself. I recently was talking to someone who had not been a good father. When I said do it now, they said it is too late. If you still have breath…..
When you are working on returning to self-love, there is going to come to a point when you realize that every decision you have ever made and will ever make is coming from you. All decisions are yours. You can no longer blame other people for making you do something you didn’t want to do. You can no longer blame people for forcing you to move forward in a direction you don’t choose to go. Every decision you made in…..
When you are working on finding yourself, you are going to have to become your own best friend. Self-love is about love and learning how to love yourself. Now that doesn’t mean going to the spa or eating well, going to the gym, or setting boundaries. That’s mnt saying that all of these things are not good. They are all very good things to do, but they are not really about loving yourself. Self-love is about learning how to love…..
Make self-love your resolution. When working on returning to self-love, the New Year becomes quite different. Maybe you are going to make resolutions and then break them in two weeks. Do you want to change your life? Make a self-love resolution. Or perhaps, you going to decide to fall in love with yourself. to make a self-love resolution. You are going to go within and find out who you are. Perhaps, change the beliefs that have been holding you back……
When working on returning to self-love, you will have to learn to accept yourself. I was recently talking with a group of people- transgender people about the need for acceptance. This group said they don’t feel accepted by other people. I had to remind them that acceptance starts within. It does not matter if others accept you. Because their lack of willingness to accept other people is a sign of them, in truth, lacking in self-love To learn to accept…..
When working on finding your self-love, you will have to look at how you receive compliments or unexpected blessings. It will tell you a lot about where you are on your journey. Unexpected blessings I had a friend who I gave some New Year’s gifts from the dollar store. They literally cost me a dollar. I filled a bag full of them just to say thanks for being in my life. When my friend saw the bag, she seemed –…..
It is essential to be kind to yourself, especially during tough times. The saying that relationships are determined during tough times is true. However, the rough times also show your relationship with yourself as well. Are you kind to yourself or compassionate with yourself? Are you gentle or nourishing with yourself during tough times and difficult times? Being kind to yourself during difficult times makes those a bit easier to deal with – and actually makes those horrible times…..