It is essential to be kind to yourself, especially during tough times. The saying that relationships are determined during tough times is true. However, the rough times also show your relationship with yourself as well. Are you kind to yourself or compassionate with yourself? Are you gentle or nourishing with yourself during tough times and difficult times? Being kind to yourself during difficult times makes those a bit easier to deal with – and actually makes those horrible times…..
We are now entering the holiday season for many of us. Perhaps it is time to do holidays differently since they consistently do two things. They stress out – with all the planning, shopping, cooking, traveling, and trying to keep everyone happy, which is frankly impossible, yet we try. They stress us out. We allow people to step over our boundaries. I don’t care how strong you are – you will end up doing something you really don’t want to…..
You Make Decisions For Yourself. When you are working on returning to self-love, there will come the point when you understand that you cannot decide for another person. Most of us like to give our opinion or judgment o what people should be doing. But if you are in self-love, you know you have no right to tell someone what to do. It is their decsion. Each person is on their own journey – on their own path. Any rock…..
What you see is what you get. Let’s start with the idea of allowing more love into your life. What if you allowed more images of love to permeate your vision? Love is not just one person to another but what you focus on with your attention and physical eyes. So if you only saw beauty or love, the lower energies would not only not be registered by your mind, but they would have little or no impact on you. Your…..
When working on returning to self-love, you must get to know yourself. You must know why you believe what you believe and if it works for you. Also, you need to know your emotions and what is running them. What is underneath your emotions? What actions do you take to protect yourself and keep yourself safe? To return to self-love, you MUST know yourself intimately- then you can change! Click here to play For more,…..
Unconditional love. While working on returning to self-love, you are going to have to learn to receive unconditional love. You don’t have to beg or ask for forgiveness. You don’t have to apologize for being born. You just have to receive unconditional love. Also, there are no rules or limits on how much you can receive. See images of love. So, I want you to be able to close your eyes and see a loving image and receive the love…..
You can no longer blame others for your decisions when you move back into self-love. Blaming others for making you do something you didn’t want to do – no longer works. You will realize that every decision you have ever made, both in the past and present, was made to make you feel safe. Or perhaps you made them, so you feel loved or give you a sense of peace. It is always your decision. When you are in self-love,…..
Don’t Believe Your Negative Ego. We all have a negative ego. Unfortunately, it is never our friend. It always lies and tells you it is the other person’s fault. They are the ones to blame. You did nothing wrong, and they must be punished for hurting you. Don’t believe your negative ego. It will take you away from the inner work you need to do to change and evolve. Stop looking for someone to give you what you need. When…..
MY RESONANCE WAS GOING DOWNWARD I had promised my mother I would care for the three ex-feral kitties after she passed. I am now down to just one of them who just turned 17 years old – However, I am also down on my cash flow. As I was starting to feel like I may lose it because of what my yardman had just done, I went inside and did a deep emotional clearing. I had not cried like that in a…..
Reawaken your jubilance Your homework for this week is to reconnect to your jubilance. To reexperience rejoiceful and triumphant emotions and to express these emotions. The trick is to express the emotions – not just move past them like my friend did and move back into worry. Or, like me – do not squelch them down to give yourself a false sense of safety. Do not squech your jubilance I squelched my jubilant feelings down to keep my sister away from…..
