When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to take your honesty to a new level. Most of us spend most of our lives lying to ourselves. It’s time to be honest with yourself. If you find that you’re angry with other people or cussing them out – telling them to screw off, you need to look underneath your anger. Because underneath your anger is what you need to heal. It is most likely hurt or fear……
When working on returning to self-love, you have to understand the fundamental part of self-love is love. Self-love is about loving you. It’s not about receiving love from other people. It’s about tapping into the love that resides within your heart. Self-love is about loving you. Now, this can seem easy to a lot of people, but I found that people are able to tap into their anger or rage, or their fear. However, when it comes to tapping into…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to take the journey of self-discovery. In order to get to self-love, you’re going to have to get to know yourself, really get to know yourself. You’re going to have to learn how to ask yourself the questions. To know what you really believe. To know what you think about the world, the universe, and your place in it. You’re going to have to know what you feel. Feel…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to reform your boundaries. Now, we all have boundaries that we put in place. They make us feel safe and secure, but unfortunately, some of these boundaries are no longer necessary. However, sometimes new boundaries are needed in order to make you feel safe and secure. The holidays are a great time to decide what is needed. Do you say yes when you really need to say no to certain…..
When working on returning to self-love, the holidays become slightly different. Maybe you have tons of family and friends to be around, or perhaps you’ll be alone. In any case, holidays can become a very lonely time. Self-love helps you to understand that even if you’re alone or perhaps surrounded by family or loved ones who don’t understand you, that’s OK. The universe understands you. You are worthy of love. You matter, you are valued, and you are more than…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to find your way back to acceptance. I was recently talking to a group of people a group of transgender people and how they feel they don’t get any acceptance. I had to remind them that acceptance starts within. It doesn’t matter if someone else accepts you because what they’re showing you is their lack of self-love. Acceptance starts within. You’ve got to go within and get to know yourself – all…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to acknowledge the changes that are happening in your life. Let’s say you’ve changed a negative belief or you’ve healed an old wound. You’re going to have to acknowledge that it has changed your life, maybe only in small ways, but it has changed your life. If you acknowledge the changes that are happening along the way, it will inspire you to continue to do the work. To make…..
When working on returning to self-love, and especially during this period of crisis, it’s important to add gratitude to the list of things that you do each and every day. Now we know that gratitude lifts your vibration, gives you more hope, and gives you an uplifting outlook on life. Now, when you do it the first thing in the morning and the last thing in the evening, It sets the tone. It sets the mood. So, I want…..
Flaws play a purpose. When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to learn to embrace your flaws. Now when I was younger, I had a speech impediment. I couldn’t say my M’s or my N’s or my T’s or my D’s. I was literally tongue-tied. Which means I didn’t read very well in school either. This is one of the reasons I loved acting because you could memorize your lines. What my flaw did – I may…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to understand the truth of the old saying that relationships are determined during the tough times. You’re going to understand that the relationship that you have with yourself is also determined during tough times. Are you kind with yourself? Are you compassionate with yourself? Are you gentle with yourself? And are you nurturing with yourself during the tough times – the difficult times – the rough times? Tough times determine relationships. When…..