When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to take your honesty to a new level. Most of us spend most of our lives lying to ourselves. It’s time to be honest with yourself. If you find that you’re angry with other people or cussing them out – telling them to screw off, you need to look underneath your anger. Because underneath your anger is what you need to heal. It is most likely hurt or fear……
When working on returning to self-love, you have to understand the fundamental part of self-love is love. Self-love is about loving you. It’s not about receiving love from other people. It’s about tapping into the love that resides within your heart. Self-love is about loving you. Now, this can seem easy to a lot of people, but I found that people are able to tap into their anger or rage, or their fear. However, when it comes to tapping into…..
When working on returning to self-love, there is a point where you’re going to have to be willing to look at your shame. As human beings, we all carry shame. We usually picked it up in early childhood and carried it forward in our lives into adulthood. Shame is harmful. It does nothing but cause us to feel bad about ourselves. To believe that we’re not worthy – that we’re not valuable – that we’re not good enough. But when…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to be brutally honest with yourself. To admit that you’re unable to receive love. Now I know a lot of people who give love freely. They give, and they give, and they give, and then they sit back and wait to see if they’re going to receive love in return. Now if they do receive love in return, they’re not able to allow it to touch their hearts. You…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to redefine love. You’re going to have to redefine love in the sense of the divine or the universe as well as the world around you. Does the universe know you? Does the universe know your name? Do you matter to the universe? Are you valued by the universe- and the world? Is the world in your favor, or is it chaotic where the strongest survive? In order to…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to take the journey of self-discovery. In order to get to self-love, you’re going to have to get to know yourself, really get to know yourself. You’re going to have to learn how to ask yourself the questions. To know what you really believe. To know what you think about the world, the universe, and your place in it. You’re going to have to know what you feel. Feel…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to have to reform your boundaries. Now, we all have boundaries that we put in place. They make us feel safe and secure, but unfortunately, some of these boundaries are no longer necessary. However, sometimes new boundaries are needed in order to make you feel safe and secure. The holidays are a great time to decide what is needed. Do you say yes when you really need to say no to certain…..
When working on returning to self-love, you’re going to find your way back to acceptance. I was recently talking to a group of people a group of transgender people and how they feel they don’t get any acceptance. I had to remind them that acceptance starts within. It doesn’t matter if someone else accepts you because what they’re showing you is their lack of self-love. Acceptance starts within. You’ve got to go within and get to know yourself – all…..
When working on returning back to self-love, you’re going to have to acknowledge the changes that are happening in your life. Let’s say you’ve changed a negative belief or you’ve healed an old wound. You’re going to have to acknowledge that it has changed your life, maybe only in small ways, but it has changed your life. If you acknowledge the changes that are happening along the way, it will inspire you to continue to do the work. To make…..
When working on returning to self-love, and especially during this period of crisis, it’s important to add gratitude to the list of things that you do each and every day. Now we know that gratitude lifts your vibration, gives you more hope, and gives you an uplifting outlook on life. Now, when you do it the first thing in the morning and the last thing in the evening, It sets the tone. It sets the mood. So, I want…..